2014年2月10日星期一

As I got out of the taxi

Always keeping God and our religion in mind we wanted to make sure we did everything Halal and in the proper manner. We decided, with the permission of her family, that I would visit during Ramadan of that year to join the family for dinner and the breaking of the fast.A Discount New Arrivals Tulle Colorful Beaded Crystal Mermaid Evening/Prom Dress is the perfect way to rock your amazing curves on prom night. I was very nervous, and I think I had a right to be.The thing about the Wholesale Cheap Noble Satin v-neck neck beaded mermaid wedding dresses HS56239 is that it should look amazing on you, while letting you be the center of attention. There is one bit of information I have left out here and after I say this you will understand my nerves, my wife and her family are from Saudi Arabia, both parents were born in Makkah. My earlier fear of the cultural issues that any prospective wife and her family might have with me were compounded about 100 percent by this fact.Trusting in God, and having a lump in my throat, I set off to meet this wonderful woman and what I supposed to be her intimidating family. I arrived in DC right before sundown and collected my bags and waited for a taxi. When it was my turn for a taxi I jumped in. The taxi driver was wearing a red and white checkered gutra (or, Arabic headdress). When I got into the taxi I greeted him with "Assalaamu Alaykum" and he returned the greeting. The sun had gone down and he was just breaking his fast with a date,Strapless Discount Spaghetti Straps Beading Taffeta Short/Mini Cocktail Dresses Prom Dresses in white and short sexy strapless black dresses. he asked if I was fasting, and when I replied in the positive, he offered me one of his own dates to break my fast. It turned out this nice older gentleman was originally from Afghanistan. I saw this is a very positive sign.After dropping off my luggage at my hotel I proceeded to the family's house with a traditional gift of dates and incense in hand.

As I got out of the taxi and started walking up to the door I just said "Bismillah" to myself and knew God would choose the best for me. All sorts of scenarios played through my mind. She would like me, but the family would hate me. The family wouldn't mind, but she would be indifferent. What if they liked me and I didn't like them? The 20 feet from the curb to the door seemed to be miles. Finally I got to the door and rang the bell.What seemed to be a dozen people answered the door, family elders, people my age, sisters, sons, daughters, and family friends. I was warmly welcomed and asked to come into the house. After I entered I was asked to take off my shoes and join the family in the meal they had made for me. It turned out, Alhamdulillah, that I need not have been worried. The family and I took to each other instantly. In talking during the dinner and after it was clear that the nice young lady and I had a connection that transcended the miles and the phone line.I came back to the DC area that January where we were married in front of friends and family. We took a nice honeymoon, and then I had to return to my work in Alaska, which was not to finish until the end of April. When it finished I moved to the DC area where I took up a job with a division of my company here. I have been here almost two years now.It is amazing, Subhan'Allah, how God led me from disbelief in a home filled with hate, and guided me to Him. At first glance it might seem that in my childhood house I couldn't have been farther from Allah, but I would argue that wasn't the case.

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